What technique do you use to seduce a girl who is so stunningly beautiful that every guy she meets just "worships" her and put her on a pedestal? You've probably met girls like this before. The problem with most guys' approach is that they immediately feel the need to start telling these girls how beautiful they are. When you do this, you REDUCE your SOCIAL VALUE in the girl's eyes: so she starts to think that you're not a guy who can get a girl like her. You're signalling to her subconscious mind that you don't deserve her. And once she puts you in that box, you're doomed. Seduction chances OVER! What you want to do when you meet a girl like this is to "psychologically" REDUCE HER SOCIAL VALUE so that she begins to think that she's not even good enough for you. When you do this successfully, you differentiate yourself from all the other "ass-kissing" guys she's come across and you suddenly become a challenge she must conquer to raise her social value back up to where she thinks she belongs. You do this by making specific statements which I call SOCIAL VALUE REDUCERS (SVR's). These SVR's are "cocky" comments aimed at the girl, but delivered in a very PLAYFUL manner. And usually the more attractive and stunning the girl you're dealing with, the more "hard-core" you should get with the SVR: the more cockiness she'll be able to handle. And the less attractive the girl, the more you'd have to lower the cockiness and just go more towards being playful only. Let me tell you a story that illustrates this principle perfectly. I have used very cocky statements on extremely beautiful girls in clubs including one example when I joked with this blonde beautiful girl that I thought she might be a man who had just had a sex change. Don't ask me what the context for that crazy statement came from, I don't even remember. Anyway, on that occasion she laughed so hard and wasn't in the least offended. Well, on a separate occasion, I was in a club with my brother having a drink. I saw this girl who kept looking over and dancing suggestively towards me. So at that point I knew she felt some type of attraction towards me (I don't know whymaybe I was just her type, physically). So I was thinking to myself that this was going to be an easy seduction. Anyway, I decided to go chat with her and her friend who she was out with. I got there and pretty much started chatting with them. Now, on a beauty scale of one to ten, I'd say she was like a six-ish. So as you now know, I should have toned down any cockiness and just been playful. Well, guess what clever pants here decided to do? That's right, "stupid me," I proceeded to be very cocky and at some stage joked with her that she couldn't possibly be a model because her portfolio would need too much "airbrushing" in order to make the grade with a modelling agency. You can guess what followed, right. But no, it gets much worse. Her friend was so upset that not only did they refuse to talk to me after that, she went and told the door-man (bouncer) of the club that I was bothering them. He came over to me and realised that it was me. You see, I know him quite well anyway, so we both just laughed it off and when the girls saw us laughing, they got frustrated and left the club shortly after. The moral of the story here is that you must "calibrate" your level of cockiness when delivering an SVR: you have to do more "cockiness" with an extremely beautiful girland do more "playfulness" with a less attractive girl. Do this right each time, and you will find it much easier to seduce women. |